Why goodness can't just happen without any requirement to go through tough times? Is this what you call destiny or fate? Or is this just what I have brought onto myself; my own failure to be more observant, to be more initiative, to be wiser in relationship matters and matters of other's feelings?

Oh Mr Yap Joachim, you've been given many chances and you've been stuffing them up. Her patience are not endless, her limits are not boundless. You have not many chances left to impress (probably none at all now), so buck up you idiot, make things better you fool! Before, you break not only your own heart but her's too!